Interesting question, that threads taken a turn for the worse.
I posted "make hay while the sun shines" which to me meant taking care of the wife and family as much as possible when you're not involved with something FF related.
Doing that has allowed me to do things like get off the phone and say, "I'm going to Key West tarpon fishing in 2 weeks" and my wife responding with, "great, have fun!" Or spend as much time striper fishing as I want.
I'm a lucky man but, I make my luck.